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Nobody’s Gettin’ Enough

This blog is the ninth in a series on relationship rescue.  We’re looking for the most powerful New Testament principles for healthy relationships. Pastor Tim’s Top Ten:

According to John Maxwell, “Man does not live by bread alone.  Sometimes he needs a little buttering up.”  We’re not talking about flattery here.  We’re talking about encouragement.  Everybody needs it- including your friends and loved ones.

#8: Thou shalt catch others in the act of doing something good. (And tell them!)

Encouragement is so rare that almost no one gets enough.  Not long ago, a rugged male friend of mine lost a lot of weight.  It not only changed his appearance, but it changed the way he felt and acted.  He was even more energetic, more positive.  The first time I mentioned how great he looked, his face broke into a big smile.  “I’ve lost 20 pounds,” he commented.  “You’re the first person who’s noticed!”

My friend has always been healthy, successful and athletic.  I’m guessing nobody bothered to comment because they figured he’s so together that he doesn’t need a good word.  In fact, everybody needs encouragement and we need it a lot.  It’s so important that God’s Word reminds us to be intentional.

Philippians 4:8 And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.

In our self-centered, therapeutic culture, many of us have assumed that the mark of true friendship is someone’s willingness to listen to all my sorrows, anxieties and frustrations.  Maybe, but most people aren’t really looking for a friend because they enjoy depressing conversations.  Most people want friends because the people we love can add value to our lives.  They hang with us.  They laugh with us.  They understand us.  And if I’m one of those really lucky individuals, they notice when I do things right, and let me know.

Want to build more positive friendships?  Practice this simple trick for two weeks and you’ll be amazed at the results.  Be intentional about listening.  Hone in on some things your friends are doing right.  Or take note of some strengths and personal talents.  Then be deliberate in telling the people you love some of the reasons why you love them.  Encourage them to keep on doing the things they do so well.  You’ll become a more attractive person, and you’ll be handing out a prescription everybody needs.

Lift up the Cross!

Give it to me Straight, Lord

It must be one of the most memorable lines ever uttered in a movie .  The scene is a military courtroom in A Few Good Men.  The young military prosecutor played by Tom Cruise barks at a general on the stand, “I want the Truth!”  Jack Nicholson’s belicose character bellows back, “You can’t handle the Truth!”

So it is with so many of the “seekers’ and spiritual pilgrims who search the web and visit the bookstores in America today: they insist they want the Truth.  The sad fact is that many can’t handle the Truth. After a generation of being being polluted with the ideals of relativism and tolerance, many of us are unprepared to deal with truth that is authoritative and absolute.  We vastly prefer personal truths which vary from person to person, age to age.  We are predisposed to convenient truth which can be adjusted to fit our circumstances.  The very fact that an idea is offered up as absolute or binding means that it cannot be valid at all.  It it doesn’t our 21st Century template.

Of course, the Bible is transparently authoritative. One of the recurring themes of the Old Testament is “Thus saith the Lord.”  While that phrase doesn’t occur in the New Testament, these phrases and statements do:

  • “Teach them to obey all the things I have commanded you [Jesus.]”  Matthew 28:20
  • “All Scripture is inspired by God…”  2 Timothy 3:16
  • “My sheep hear my voice and they follow me.”  John 10:27 
  • “Be doers of the Word, and not hearers only.”  James 1:22

Sometimes we speculate that the men who wrote the Scriptures might have had no idea they were jotting down the very words of God.  Perhaps not, but they certainly realized it pretty quickly afterwards.  In 2 Peter 3:16, the Apostle Peter describes the letters of Paul as “Scriptures.”  He even concedes they are sometimes difficult to understand and have sometimes been twisted by false teachers, but they should be heard and heeded.

Rational men and women are not intimidated by healthy authority.  In fact, the average American is delighted when his GPS device is authoritative in offering up directions.  It can be downright unsettling when the trusted navigator  shifts into the vague uncertainty of “Recalculating… recalculating…..!”  Likewise, it is extremely comforting when a physician speaks with authority: “This is your diagnosis and here’s how we plan to make you well.”  Can you imagine that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach after receiving bad news from your physician and then watching his expression shift to uncertainty and confusion?  Marines and other warriors of the US Armed Forces succeed when the people in command are clear and direct in issuing commands.  Even the Bible suggests how confusing it is for an army or a nation “when the trumpet is uncertain.”

In the swamp of relativity that is American culture in 2011, it seems trendy to blur distinctions and resist the status quo.  Even so, most words still have meaning.  Red is a color that we can recognize.  A pound is still a measure of weight that is precisely defined.  Likewise, the word disciple has a specific meaning.  A disciple is not a fan.  Fans are known for their enthusiasm.   A disciple is not an admirer.  Admirers are drawn to a look or a personality.  A disciple is someone who is so devoted to the ideas and priorities of a teacher, that he builds those principles and priorities into his own life.  Jesus Christ only calls disciples.  We don’t simply cheer him on with enthusiasm.  We walk with him by faith, striving to embody his Truth in our lives.   We didn’t come to the cross looking for suggestions.  We came to find a Savior!

One of the first things you learn at the amazing US Marine Corps Museum in Quantico, VA is the story of Sgt. Eddie Wright.  In Iraq in 2004, Wright’s platoon was attacked by a larger group of armed insurgents.  The assault resulted in the deaths of Sgt. Wright’s commanding officer and at least five other Marines.  At one point, an RPG struck his rifle and blasted it out of his hands.  As the dust cleared moments later, the dazed Marine discovered he was unable to pick up the pieces of his rifle because he had lost both hands and both forearms.  Despite these and other profound injuries, he continued to direct the evacuation of the wounded, pointed out targets for the gunners, and directed the evacuation of the entire platoon.  Forty-five minutes  later aboard a helicopter, a shocked medic fought desperately to stop all bleeding.  He commented to the young warrior, “With all these injuries, I can’t believe you didn’t go into shock.”  Sgt. Wright replied, “I couldn’t.  I was in command.”

In life or death situations on life’s battlefields, there is no substitute for for a qualified individual in command.  Who better to command my life than the Creator God who sent his son to rescue me from death and destruction?  The Word of God provides directions to a destination I’ve never visited.  It describes conditions in a realm I cannot see.  What’s more, this is not just one more consumer decision.  This is a matter of life and death.  Along with millions of other well adjusted human beings, I am happy to pray, “Give it to me straight, Lord.”  He is in command.  I am glad to take orders.

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